 | ||
|
|
We've covered being an Alpha Male, Body Language, and Timing. Next up is Comfort.
In building a sexual relationship with a girl, you HAVE to create enough comfort for her to be able to come home with you. She must feel comfortable enough with you. For some, an hour might be enough time, with others it might take days. However, I'll let you in on the fast track to success regarding the building of comfort. One way is to get personal; tell her stories of your life. Open up and give her the chance to tell you stuff. This gives her the feeling that you've known each other for a long time. The second thing is to create a comfort zone around you. Cover her if anything happens, take her hand and lead her through the dance floor. Part of this comfort zone involves you being physical with her; touch her when you're talking, brush her hair back. Make it out to be the most natural thing in the world. The fifth thing I want you to really master (and this is how I was able to bed the two beautiful girls from my 'Crazy Little Holiday' story) is that magic little thing in seduction and dating. This will ALWAYS proves itself to be effective. That magic little thing is Humour. It's a well known fact that girls tend to go for guys with humour. If you've got this skill there is nothing that will hold you back, trust me, just let it out. You can use it to seduce practically any girl, anywhere. And believe me, when I was young I definitely wasn't anything close to being humourous, so this skill really can be learnt. It's just a matter of knowing the right formula. That's all for today, although I should let you know; there is much more to come real soon ; - ) Best thoughts, Costas Elvito Your Personal Guide in the Dating Game |
|
 | ||