OK, things are starting to get exciting. I have so many good memories and stories of crazy one night stands they should be in a hall of fame. What makes me smile even more is that I know YOU can get so many of your own crazy one night adventures, or pursue it even further if that is your goal.

Now you know how to approach any girl anywhere, it's time to take the next step and close the deal. One night stands usually happen when you're going out to clubs or something similar. So now we'll take a closer look at this particular area of seduction.

So if you're looking for one; find some friends, get together, have a great pre-party, and be all pumped up for a fantastic night out on the town.

I can not emphasise enough just how important it is that your having fun with your mates. The girls will notice this and see you as a fun, attractive guy. The better your mates look and the more fun you have, the more attractive your group will be for all the ladies in the club, room, street, etc.

An important rule when entering a club; do not pay attention to ANY girl.

What matters is you and your mates - hang out, laugh, smile and be the crowd that people notice has heaps of fun.

When you enter the bar, act casually.

Buy some drinks, hang out with your mates - you still shouldn't pay attention to ANY girl.

Believe me, the girls are starting to notice you, and will pretty soon be starting to think (if they're not already) "what's the thing with these guys, why are'nt they interested in me?"

Now you're being different, which clearly seperates you from all the other guys that seem desperate. This intrigues the ladies so much that they will start seeing you as a potential partner.

So when you then - out of almost nowhere - approach this girl smiling, you have portrayed a confidence that will really strike her.

This is such a simple technique its almost silly how strong an impact it has on the ladies. Now you're so much more 'in' than any of the 'hungry' guys in the club, you should be laughing inside.

You're the kind of man she wants. Be natural, laid back, and have fun with her. Pay her and her friends out in a funny way (be the alpha male).

You should talk about living the dream, following the heart, make her EXCITED, and also subtly talk about how important it is to enjoy every day to the utmost. This subtly makes her subconcsious open to having sex at the end of the night.

(I love mentioning one of my faviourite songs; Bon Jovi - 'It's My Life, It's Now or Never' - This seriously sets her up for not holding back later in the evening ;-)

Other things to talk about are things like travelling, or anything else that will excite her. Never disagree with her on points which she feels strongly about, and be sure to talk like you've known her for her entire life. She will be comfortable around you, and will relax and open up so much, that there will be no problem with closing the night with wild passionate... hmmm, you catch my drift ; - )

Girls love to dance. If you're not good at it, just try and have fun with it and make the girls laugh, (but a little caution: most girls generally imagine a guy in bed as he is on the dance floor) - if you've got the rhythm, go for it. If not, it might be best to leave it.

If you have been dancing with a girl, and you start getting thirsty, ask her if she feels like a drink - most likely she will say yes. Then you take her hand and lead her to the bar (this is VERY important - you're the one leading= Alpha Male).

Then you ask what's she would like when you're about to order. This is not like you're buying her a drink that you expect to get anything from, it's like your buying for a friend.

If she starts saying something about payment, say its cool - she can take the next round. If she says she doesn't feel like a drink, say something about how you've had your share for now anyway, and remember to be humorous about the way you say it.

The most important thing is to be fun to be with, be adventurous, be someone which she loves to be around - be a real Alpha Male.

To close the 'deal' with her, I will let you in on a fantastic and extremely effective technique. What you do is tell her to come along to this takeout place (it could be your favourite, or just somewhere to get a bite), and then head straight for a taxi. Don't ask her to come along, TAKE IT FOR GRANTED.

Make it easy for her to come along, don't make her feel she has to object (girls are wary of not being looked at as cheap, don't make them think of this).

Another closer is to say she could join you at an after party, this could either be private at your place, or at a friends house.

The main point at this closing stage is that things need to go smoothly.

Things should ALMOST be planned in advance, set up so there are no 'stop signs' on the way.

At this time you should have teased her with gentle touches on the body, but still not have gone for the kiss.

Yes, that is right.

The sexual tension has built up during the whole night, and she is going crazy on the inside.

Girls find it unbelievable that the man has not tried to go for her, and will even wonder if you're at all interested in her 'sexually'. Trust me this will make the girls go all crazy inside with a great desire for you.

Now when the mood is set (at your home or close to any place where you can have sex), look her into the eyes, take your right hand and stroke her hair just behind her left  ear, then slowly but confidently go for the kiss.

She will be totally blown away, and feel like shes in a dream-land.

Mr. Don Juan you take it from there ;-) That should be easy, just lay her down in the bed, or whatever crazy idea you have in mind.

You're going to love Day 5: The Importance of a Wingman

Talk to you soon,

Costas Elvito

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