"The game is played in comfort" - Mystery.

Do you want to know why comfort is so important? I'll tell you why; let me grab a quote from The Venusian Arts Handbook:

"Geez all we really had to talk about was dog food and petting our dogs, we didn't really connect on a conversational level. Plus I made out with him so I know he's going to want more of that, but I don't even know this guy... it was fun at the time but I just don't feel comfortable with this right now. There are million guys; I'll meet another hot guy tonight when I'm out with my girlfriends."

This gives you an insight into why it is soooo crucial to build comfort with the girl. I'm going to let you in on three important points. You should build trust, make the girl feel safe, and you have to keep it real.

1. Trust:

You can tell her something that she can actually check out, and know you are telling the truth.

2. Feel Safe: 

Keep it comfortable, make her feel you're the safest person to be around. On a psychological level, you can talk in a low, deep voice - that is slow and relaxing for her to listen to.

3. Keep it Real: 

Be your true self, to some extent ; - ) They will smell it, if you come across as a try hard. Just make your true self, even more exciting.

 

More deep information on Comfort:
Share some secrets, open up to the women, and they will dramatically lower their defense system. If you open up, they will in most cases do the same, however be careful about the timing, do not open up too soon, (coz then you're a wuss), time it right and you have the ladies soft and sweet.
An example to start her to open up, while you do it, is a question game. Start by saying she can ask you anything, and you have to answer (if you can, of course put in some bondaries in the rules of the game ;).

When it comes to how much comfort, and time, there is a 7 hour rule, that holds true in many cases, that you often need between 4 to 10 hours for sexual intercourse to occur. This 7 hour rule can be in one day, or be stretched over several days. Keep this in mind that it takes time to build comfort for the girl to get naked with you. Don't expect it to happen in an instant, according to Mystery it takes an average of 7 hours, although I say less ; - ).

Be talkative - make her feel comfortable talking to you, kill those embarrassing silent periods by having something to talk about, smile, be fun, and don't be afraid to get touch on a friendly basis. Holding hands is perfect, makes the Girl feel nice and comfortable.

Mystery is the man of Comfort, get even deeper on this topic with his Venusian Arts, the Crew really recommends his tactics:.

Look forward to the next lesson, it will be Juicy : - D

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